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		<title>Your Own Personal Stress Management Technique</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[My personal stress management technique has got to be very powerful, whatever it is. Doesn&#8217;t seem that there is any let up in stress these days, does there? However, once I give some thought to where stress exists, or is experienced, and the sequence of events leading to the physiology of stress, a body full [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My personal stress management technique has got to be very<br />
powerful, whatever it is. Doesn&#8217;t seem that there is any let<br />
up in stress these days, does there?</p>
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<p>However, once I give some thought to where stress exists, or<br />
is experienced, and the sequence of events leading to the<br />
physiology of stress, a body full of hormones and<br />
neurotransmitters more appropriate to combating an attack<br />
than the board room or the living room, I can recognize that<br />
there are some interventions I can work on to change the<br />
chemistry inside my body.</p>
<p>I can change my thoughts, which will change my feelings,<br />
which will give me more time to make choices about my<br />
behavior.</p>
<p>And according to Dr. Daniel Amen, relaxation actually<br />
activates the higher perceptual centers of my brain for<br />
better decision making.</p>
<p>That is a good payoff for learning a stress management<br />
technique.</p>
<p>Perhaps the most important stress management technique to<br />
learn is that my thoughts, my interpretations of sensory<br />
data, are what brings the chemistry of stress into my body.</p>
<p>And that process happens very fast, about twice as fast as I<br />
can blink my eyes.</p>
<p>And one stressful thought can bring on another and another,<br />
and before a second has elapsed, (that is right, one second)<br />
I may have generated a sequence of thoughts that leave me<br />
filled with enough adrenalin and cortisol to move me into<br />
distress rather than eustress, and then I can keep myself<br />
there long enough to begin to impact my brain fitness, my<br />
heart fitness, and the rest of my body too.</p>
<p>My first really successful stress management technique was<br />
to say the phrase; &#8220;Gratitude is the attitude&#8221; to myself,<br />
and that worked, because someone always has it worse off<br />
than I do, but the relief I felt when saying that phrase to<br />
myself was short lived.</p>
<p>Somewhere I had picked up the idea that I was supposed to<br />
have long periods of contentment, sort of like a drug<br />
experience, and that is not how your body normally works.</p>
<p>In other words, I need to practice gratitude frequently,<br />
starting with thoughts (and/or breathing) and my body will<br />
eventually follow along and learn that the physiology of<br />
contentment is what I want it to learn, and stay near.</p>
<p>In my early days of seeking a seeking a stress management<br />
technique, I looked at many different tools, and there are a<br />
lot of good meditative and cognitive tools out there,<br />
including Open Focus, Transcendental Meditation, working<br />
out, but for my money, I want a tool that does not require<br />
me to stop what I am doing and sit quietly meditating.</p>
<p>In other words it has to be usable while I am going about my<br />
daily business, and of all the tools I have tried, the one<br />
that has worked best for me is learning how to do the heart<br />
rate variability biofeedback.</p>
<p>I can feel the change using heart rate variability<br />
biofeedback, and since I learned the skill on a computer, I<br />
know that my physiology changes when I do the Quick<br />
Coherence Technique.</p>
<p>So when I feel myself getting critical or judgemental or<br />
snappy, (and I still use gratitude thoughts by the way) I<br />
can switch my thoughts to the area around my heart, place my<br />
children&#8217;s faces there, and feel my heart become more<br />
coherent, and since I have some experience with Heartmath<br />
heart rate variability biofeedback, my body switches back to<br />
a cooperative and affiliative physiology within a heart beat.</p>
<p>Not quite the speed of thought but close, and that tool has<br />
saved me a lot of regrets over the years. I have been able<br />
to operate from a heartfelt cooperation and affiliation more<br />
and more often.</p>
<p>In fact, the practice of heart rate variability has given<br />
me a felt experience of the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy<br />
concept that you do not have to accept thoughts as truths.<br />
You can dispute them. In other words, I can fill myself with<br />
love and then think one distressing thought and fill myself<br />
with the feeling of stress or despair, and then think the<br />
loving thought, and feel the love come right back into my<br />
body. You can even dispute the thoughts that make you feel<br />
good, if you want.</p>
<p>So we have managed to move ourselves from the realm of the<br />
external making me feel stressed, because it is my thought<br />
about the external that brings on the adrenalin and cortisol<br />
inside my body, and using and some mindfulness coupled with<br />
some practice, I can steer my physiology like I steer my car<br />
with thousands of small adjustments.</p>
<p>In fact, I may get so good at heart rate variability<br />
biofeedback that it runs in the background of my brain,<br />
popping into the foreground for a heart beat&#8217;s worth of<br />
attention on an as-needed basis.</p>
<p>It is important to recognize for some folks that heart rate<br />
variability biofeedback is a learned skill and does not<br />
override any basic biological process. In other words, I can<br />
still activate my fight or flight chemistry if needed for a<br />
real attack.</p>
<p>If you want to check out the benefits of having your own<br />
personal stress management technique for your neurogenesis,<br />
or the growth of new brain cells, then read Brainfit for<br />
Life by Simon Evans,Ph.D. and Paul Burghardt,Ph.D.</p>
<p>Hope you enjoy your coherence!</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Michael S. Logan is a brain fitness expert, counselor, a<br />
student of Chi Gong, and a licensed one on one HeartMath<br />
provider. I enjoy the spiritual, the mythological, and<br />
psychological, and I am a late life father to Shane, 10, and<br />
Hannah Marie, 4, whose brains are so amazing.<br />
<a href="http://www.askmikethecounselor2.com">http://www.askmikethecounselor2.com</a></p>
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		<title>Beat Panic Attacks Today And Do It Naturally</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A low number of individuals understand the adverse consequences of what little daily stress and anxiety can lead to if they don&#8217;t start controlling and defeating panic attacks, and that they can do it naturally. Some of the indicators can include nervous-looking, a feeling of sickness, elevated heart rate, and also difficulty inhaling and exhaling, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A low number of individuals understand the adverse<br />
consequences of what little daily stress and anxiety can<br />
lead to if they don&#8217;t start controlling and defeating panic<br />
attacks, and that they can do it naturally. Some of the<br />
indicators can include nervous-looking, a feeling of<br />
sickness, elevated heart rate, and also difficulty inhaling<br />
and exhaling, once you recognize them, it&#8217;s a starting place<br />
to get started controlling them. Anxiety and panic attacks<br />
are usually triggered by really stressful situations, such<br />
as a congested room or small enclosed space.</p>
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<p>To find really effective panic cures, you simply must begin<br />
by analyzing yourself, and everything you have to do in<br />
order to get over the attacks as fast as possible. Nobody<br />
needs to be prone to the difficulty breathing as well as<br />
wooziness, and if you are among the many individuals who<br />
wants a solution right now, then you should explore deep<br />
into your matters to obtain the solution. Anxiety and panic<br />
attacks can often be reduced by first figuring out which<br />
kind of instances cause you to be the most stressed and<br />
prone to have an anxiety attack. Once you start to do this,<br />
you&#8217;ll be much closer to finally stopping your attacks<br />
completely.</p>
<p>To begin with the process of naturally conquering panic<br />
attacks, think about one specific scenario that may be<br />
causing your blood pressure to skyrocket sending you into a<br />
real anxiety attack. This is usually done by someone who<br />
really wants to prevent their anxiety attacks before they<br />
happen. As you observe yourself giving in to pressure,<br />
breathe deeply and think about the worst type of possible<br />
end result of what can happen by allowing the stress to take<br />
over. You are the one in control always, and it&#8217;s critical<br />
that you know and understand this. With repetition like a<br />
mantra or an affirmation, you begin taking over the power<br />
over your body and mind, as a result defeating these attacks<br />
forever.</p>
<p>Employing different inhaling and exhaling exercises can<br />
easily put you into a much more peaceful and soothed state<br />
of mind. Doing this you&#8217;ll create a good breathing technique<br />
of your own which you can make use of in a scenario which you<br />
know will cause a panic attack. You want to have many methods<br />
of letting you conquer panic attacks, which are nothing more<br />
then our own interpretations of what happens to us. You can<br />
also try counting to ten or twenty while you&#8217;re deep<br />
breathing. This could be a very effective method to calm you<br />
down in the moment if you feel like you haven&#8217;t any control<br />
over yourself.</p>
<p>Whenever contemplating every one of the ways of controlling<br />
anxiety attacks efficiently, you must additionally look at<br />
the power of meditation. You&#8217;ll quickly see that the signs<br />
and symptoms of emotional stress and uneasiness begin fading<br />
away when you get into a more calm state of mind. Give<br />
thought to the internal conversation you might be having, in<br />
order to develop a plan of coping with them, in the course of<br />
and prior to starting feeling weighed down . and anxious.<br />
Often times panic attacks emerge because of the subconscious<br />
fears, so it&#8217;s always a good idea to focus on just what<br />
bothers you in most aspects of life in the time of<br />
meditation sessions. The most effective methods to cure just<br />
about any anxiety or anxiety and panic attacks is to to take<br />
some time to think about all the amazing things in your life<br />
that you love, get pleasure from and enjoy. Doing this is a<br />
natural way to remove tension, nervousness, and panic<br />
attacks.</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Find out more about overcoming panic attacks and anxiety<br />
cures on our blog at <a href="http://overcomingpanicattacks4good.com">http://overcomingpanicattacks4good.com</a></p>
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		<title>Herbal Remedies for Anxiety</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Taking medication isn&#8217;t for everyone and if you&#8217;re the type of person who doesn&#8217;t like to take medication, you should be aware that there are herbal remedies for anxiety. No one is immune to the mental and physical trouble that anxiety can bring on but none of us have to put up with living that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Taking medication isn&#8217;t for everyone and if you&#8217;re the type<br />
of person who doesn&#8217;t like to take medication, you should be<br />
aware that there are herbal remedies for anxiety. No one is<br />
immune to the mental and physical trouble that anxiety can<br />
bring on but none of us have to put up with living that way.<br />
The longer that the anxiety goes on without treatment, the<br />
worse the physical symptoms can become. See if you recognize<br />
the following side effects of having anxiety.</p>
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<p>Fast, rapid breathing is one side effect, heart feeling like<br />
it&#8217;s beating too fast is another. Feeling an almost<br />
overwhelming sense of doom is how some sufferers describe<br />
what they&#8217;re going through while battle a tense, nauseated<br />
tightness in the pit of the stomach.</p>
<p>Tense muscles and having trouble paying attention and<br />
focusing on even simple tasks are some of the problems that<br />
anxiety can cause. You can have all the symptoms or a few<br />
and they can come when a trigger that flips the anxious<br />
feelings is tripped.</p>
<p>There are many health problems that can cause anxiety so<br />
before you assume that yours is normal anxiety, go see your<br />
doctor. Health problems that can make anxiety develop are<br />
trouble with the heart-an undiagnosed heart condition or<br />
disorder, anemia, diabetes and problems with the thyroid<br />
gland. Once you&#8217;ve been checked and ruled those out, then<br />
you can take herbal remedies for anxiety and find successful<br />
treatment.</p>
<p>For hundreds of years, herbs have been used to help heal a<br />
variety of ailments. While many over the counter and<br />
prescription drugs have dangerous side effects, when used<br />
the right way, herbs can be safely ingested.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re not sure which herb to use for anxiety or how much<br />
of it to use, seek the guidance of a doctor who specializes<br />
in alternative medicine. You&#8217;ll find numerous doctors who<br />
practice naturopathic medicine and you can look them up<br />
under holistic practitioners too.</p>
<p>Anxiety and stress are bonded together much like a circle of<br />
metal. You can&#8217;t see where one part ends and the other<br />
begins. Stress is not bad as long as it&#8217;s not overpowering.<br />
Some stress that can be helpful for you is the stress of a<br />
project deadline. It keeps you steadily working toward<br />
meeting that goal and that&#8217;s not a bad stress to feel. But<br />
relentless stress can be counterproductive.</p>
<p>Herbal remedies for anxiety can relieve you not only of the<br />
anxiety but also of the stress you might be feeling. Herbals<br />
can help you to relax and put you in a better frame of mind<br />
as you seek to find the underlying reason that&#8217;s causing the<br />
trouble.</p>
<p>Biofeedback is another very powerful tool to have in your<br />
anti-anxiety tool box. Biofeedback technology has grown more<br />
and more sophisticated in the last 30 years, and it is<br />
possible now to train both brain waves and heart rate<br />
variability using computerized programs.</p>
<p>Biofeedback is learned, so it is much more permanent than<br />
binaural beat tones for example, or visualizations.</p>
<p>I have been using the emWave heart rate variability<br />
biofeedback tool personally and professionally for quite<br />
some time, and I think it is an excellent tool to use with<br />
herbal remedies like green tea, with l-theanine.</p>
<p>When I first bought the heart rate variability biofeedback<br />
tool, I had no idea how long it would take for me to learn<br />
how to use it.</p>
<p>Turns out it took 6 one-half hour practices for me to feel<br />
confident that I could induce the relaxation (and is it<br />
relaxing) physiology without being hooked up to the<br />
computer. In other words, whenever I feel stress or anxiety,<br />
I can use my cue thought and breathing tools, and feel the<br />
relaxation replace the stress and anxiety.</p>
<p>The important thing to remember is that I need to continue<br />
to pay attention to the eustress/distress continuum and<br />
adjust my breathing and thinking tools regularly, sort of<br />
like how I steer a car, with many tiny adjustments.</p>
<p>In the background of your thinking, you might remind<br />
yourself often that too much adrenaline and cortisol<br />
inhibits your brain&#8217;s ability to grow new brain cells daily,<br />
which is called neurogenesis.</p>
<p>As far as I am concerned, bigger is better when it comes to<br />
brains, so I will learn to pay attention to my thinking and<br />
feeling, and I will use herbal remedies for anxiety, like<br />
green tea, which is also full of antioxidants, another<br />
important part of the brain fitness continuum.</p>
<p>So remember, you can impact anxiety with herbs used as<br />
directed, and they are really effective when included in a<br />
brain fitness lifestyle. Here is to a bigger brain.</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Michael S. Logan is a brain fitness expert, counselor, a<br />
student of Chi Gong, and a licensed one on one HeartMath<br />
provider. I enjoy the spiritual, the mythological, and<br />
psychological, and I am a late life father to Shane, 10, and<br />
Hannah Marie, 4, whose brains are so amazing.<br />
<a href="http://www.askmikethecounselor2.com">http://www.askmikethecounselor2.com</a></p>
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		<title>Choose The Best Essential Oil Diffuser For You</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of Nature&#8217;s greatest gifts to us are essential oils - extracts from plants and flowers that smell wonderful, and often have healthy benefits. Some oils promote relaxation. Others energize people. And in some cases, they just make a musty old room smell really wonderful. But essential oils need a device that disperses them into [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of Nature&#8217;s greatest gifts to us are essential oils -<br />
extracts from plants and flowers that smell wonderful, and<br />
often have healthy benefits. Some oils promote relaxation.<br />
Others energize people. And in some cases, they just make a<br />
musty old room smell really wonderful. But essential oils<br />
need a device that disperses them into the air, and that&#8217;s<br />
where essential oil diffusers come in. Within minutes, these<br />
devices can turn a humdrum room into a soothing abode.</p>
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<p>Spas use them regularly as part of their therapeutic<br />
services, such as during massages, scrubs, and facials. But<br />
you don&#8217;t need to go to a high-priced spot in order to get<br />
the benefits of aromatherapy. In fact, you can use essential<br />
oils right in your own home and turn it into a relaxing<br />
retreat from the world. The trick is, you need to know how<br />
to choose the best essential oil diffuser for your purposes.</p>
<p>Candle diffuser &#8211; this version uses a bowl with a candle<br />
inside. A few drops of oil are placed in the bowl, and the<br />
heat from the flame causes the oil to evaporate into the<br />
air.</p>
<p>Lamp rings &#8212; oil is dropped onto the ring and placed over<br />
the lamp, and the heat from the electric bulb causes the oil<br />
to evaporate and disperse through the air. However, these<br />
types of diffusers should be used with caution because they<br />
are hard to monitor and can lead to fires if too hot of a<br />
bulb wattage is used.</p>
<p>Fan diffuser &#8212; this diffuser does not need heat. In order<br />
to release the oil aroma, the oil is absorbed by a small<br />
pad. The fan diffuser blows cool air across the pad,<br />
dispersing the oils through the air.</p>
<p>Nebulizer &#8211; this diffuser has a motor at its base that turns<br />
the oil into a vapor that wafts into the air. Like the fan<br />
diffuser, no heat source is used in this method.</p>
<p>Electric nebulizer &#8212; this diffuser uses both a fan and heat<br />
to give off oil aromas to the entire room.</p>
<p>Your choice of diffuser will depend somewhat on the<br />
environment you plan to use it in. For instance, you might<br />
not want an extra heat source if you live in an extremely<br />
dry, hot area. Also, if you have small children or are<br />
unable to continuously monitor the diffuser, it might be<br />
best to avoid the diffusers with open flames or heat<br />
sources.</p>
<p>On the other hand, heat diffusers offer one of the easiest<br />
and most practical ways to disperse essential oils through<br />
the air. If you don&#8217;t have an electrical source, then the<br />
nebulizer that plugs into a wall socket isn&#8217;t going to do<br />
you much good!</p>
<p>Now that you know the various types of diffusers available,<br />
you can make an informed choice and start to fill your house<br />
with the relaxing or energizing aromas you like best.<br />
Purchase a diffuser today, start to experiment with<br />
essential oils, in turn your home into a relaxing retreat<br />
from the stresses of everyday life!</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Check out this site for the best essential oil diffusers:<br />
<a href="http://essentialoildiffusershop.com/">http://essentialoildiffusershop.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Chakra Healing Meditation</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the language of Sanskrit the word chakra means wheel of light. According to the ancient Vedic tradition there are seven spinning wheels of light spaced between the base of our spine and the crown of our head. Each chakra representing a different aspect of our human nature. Singing different tones attributed to each chakra [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the language of Sanskrit the word chakra means wheel of<br />
light. According to the ancient Vedic tradition there are<br />
seven spinning wheels of light spaced between the base of<br />
our spine and the crown of our head. Each chakra<br />
representing a different aspect of our human nature.</p>
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<p>Singing different tones attributed to each chakra makes it<br />
easy to feel where they are located. The seven different<br />
tones are sometimes arranged in a chromatic scale, generally<br />
that of C major. This is a Western precept gained from<br />
measuring the frequencies of the rainbow colours attributed<br />
to each chakra. There are varying thoughts regarding the<br />
notes of each chakra, some saying the Root chakra is an A<br />
note and others saying it is a B note. Staying with our<br />
Western idea that the chakras are in C Major, the First<br />
chakra would be the note of C, the Second would be D, the<br />
Third an E, the Fourth an F, the Fifth a G, the Sixth an A<br />
and the seventh would be a B note.</p>
<p>The Chakras</p>
<p>The First or &#8216;Root&#8217; Chakra (MULADHARA) is located at the<br />
base of spine. Its element is Earth and it is Red in colour.<br />
The sense this chakra represents is smell and, energetically<br />
it represents grounding and security. The tone that<br />
resonates with this chakra is &#8216;UH&#8217;, or in the Vedic<br />
tradition LAM. Crystals and Gemstones for this chakra are<br />
Smoky Quartz, Garnet, Alexandrite, Ruby, Agate, Bloodstone,<br />
Onyx, Tiger&#8217;s Eye and Rose Quartz.</p>
<p>The Second or &#8216;Sacral&#8217; chakra (SVADISTHANA), also known as<br />
the Hara, is located between the root and navel. Its element<br />
is Water and it is Orange in colour. The sense this chakra<br />
represents is taste, energetically it represents sexuality<br />
and life energy. The tone that resonates with this chakra is<br />
&#8216;OO&#8217;, or in the Vedic tradition, VAM. Crystals and Gemstones<br />
for this chakra are Amber, Citrine, Topaz, Aventurine,<br />
Moonstone and Jasper.</p>
<p>The Third or &#8216;Solar Plexus&#8217; chakra (MANIPURA) is located at<br />
the navel. Its element is Fire and it is Yellow in colour.<br />
The sense this chakra represents is sight and, energetically<br />
it represents ego and self esteem. The tone that resonates<br />
with this chakra is &#8216;OH&#8217;, or in the Vedic tradition RAM.<br />
Crystals and Gemstones for this chakra are Yellow Citrine,<br />
Apatite, Calcite, Kunzite, Rose Quartz, Iron Pyrites (Fool&#8217;s<br />
Gold), Topaz and Malachite.</p>
<p>The Fourth chakra (ANAHATA) is located at the heart. Its<br />
element is Air and it is Green in colour. The sense this<br />
chakra represents is touch and, energetically it represents<br />
love. The tone that resonates with this chakra is &#8216;AH&#8217;, or<br />
in the Vedic tradition YAM. Crystals and Gemstones for this<br />
chakra are Emerald, Green Calcite, Amber, Azurite,<br />
Chrysoberyl, Jade, Rose and Watermelon Tourmalines.</p>
<p>The Fifth chakra (VISUDHA) is located at the throat. Its<br />
element is Ether and it is Blue in colour. The sense this<br />
chakra represents is hearing and, energetically it<br />
represents communication. The tone that resonates with this<br />
chakra is &#8216;EH&#8217; (or sometimes &#8216;MEM&#8217;), or in the Vedic<br />
tradition HAM. Crystals and Gemstones for this chakra are<br />
Lapis Lazuli, Aquamarine, Sodalite, Turquoise and Sapphire.</p>
<p>The Sixth chakra (AJNA) is located at the Third eye. Its<br />
element is Light and it is Violet in colour. The sense this<br />
chakra represents is light and, energetically it represents<br />
insight and imagination. The tone that resonates with this<br />
chakra is &#8216;EE&#8217;, or in the Vedic tradition SHAM. Crystals and<br />
Gemstones for this chakra are Amethyst, Purple Apatite,<br />
Azurite, Calcite, Pearl, Sapphire, Blue and White Fluorite.</p>
<p>The Seventh or &#8216;Crown&#8217; chakra (SAHASRARA) is located at the<br />
top of the head. It is Indigo in colour. Energetically this<br />
chakra represents transcendence. The tone that resonates<br />
with this chakra is &#8216;I&#8217; (EYE) or in the Vedic tradition AUM.<br />
Crystals and Gemstone for this chakra are Diamond, White<br />
Tourmaline, White Jade, Snowy Quartz and Celestite.</p>
<p>Journeying through the Seven chakras</p>
<p>We start with the Root chakra; this is all about survival,<br />
food and shelter. Once we have this sorted in our lives we<br />
move onto the second chakra where we experience sex and life<br />
energy. So having moved from a state of survival we then move<br />
into a state of sexuality. We then move up into a sense of<br />
&#8216;self&#8217; with the Third chakra. This is an &#8216;I will&#8217; or &#8216;I<br />
want&#8217; mentality. Having connected with our &#8216;selves&#8217; and our<br />
ego&#8217;s, we can then to move to the heart chakra where we can<br />
love and move beyond our selfish motives. Moving up to the<br />
throat chakra we experience communication, not only spoken<br />
but also telepathy. Naturally we then move up to our Third<br />
eye which is all about insight and meditation. This is the<br />
point where we transcend our physical and emotional needs<br />
and move beyond to experience meditation. This leads nicely<br />
onto the crown chakra where we experience Nirvana or<br />
enlightenment.</p>
<p>Experiencing Your Chakras</p>
<p>By singing the chakra tones we are literally singing<br />
ourselves back in tune with existence. To feel and<br />
experience your chakras, you will need to sit in a quiet,<br />
meditative space and chant the relevant tones for each<br />
chakra. It is a good idea to start at the First or root<br />
chakra by chanting &#8216;UH&#8217;. Some find it easier to visualise<br />
the colour of the chakras while chanting. Repeat the &#8216;UH&#8217;<br />
chant for several minutes before moving on to the Second<br />
chakra, chanting &#8216;OO&#8217;. Continue to move up through all the<br />
chakras, and after several minutes chanting the &#8216;I&#8217; for the<br />
Crown chakra, move back down through all the chakras to the<br />
First or Root chakra.</p>
<p>You will experience each chakra as a swirling, circular<br />
energy, hence the name &#8216;the wheel of light&#8217;. After chanting<br />
up and down through your chakras, it is a good idea to sit<br />
quietly. This is a fantastic meditation that relaxes and<br />
replenishes our being.</p>
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		<title>How To Reduce Stress To Reduce Colitis Symptoms</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A widely recognised and acknowledged factor when dealing with<br />
colitis symptoms is the role of stress and how it can affect<br />
the health of those diagnosed with the disease. By first<br />
realising that stress can be a contributory factor in<br />
bringing symptoms on, it can be beneficial to learn how to<br />
identify and handle existing stress and guard against the<br />
build up of symptom inducing levels that can be avoided.</p>
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<p>The most important action that a sufferer can take is to<br />
source and understand as much information as possible about<br />
colitis, including personal knowledge from fellow sufferers<br />
who have the exact priceless advice that is so useful. When<br />
a clear understanding of how the disease affects the<br />
sufferer is possessed then there will always be a better<br />
chance that the correct action is taken when symptoms do<br />
unfortunately appear. This includes the notion that a<br />
sufferer should ensure that they take responsibility for<br />
their illness and how they deal with their daily living. By<br />
undertakeing such actions, the sufferer will have greater<br />
confidence and avoiding stress which results from being<br />
unaware of what is actually happening to them.</p>
<p>By becoming more knowledgeable about colitis you will have<br />
greater awareness of the influence and role stress can play.<br />
Part of this is to anticipate the daily occurrences that can<br />
lead to a build up of stress and try and mitigate such<br />
factors that can be responsible. You should look to<br />
introduce greater flexibility and adaptation into your life<br />
in order to avoid scenarios that could induce short sharp<br />
bouts of stress or events that may feed a slow but dangerous<br />
build up.</p>
<p>Controlling stress can also take the form of actions to<br />
alleviate it. The cry of &#8220;just let it all out&#8221; can be a<br />
valid one when worry and tension requires to be given an<br />
outlet rather than being suppressed, to the detriment of the<br />
bowel. As an alternative, the acknowledged medicine of<br />
laughter is a great way to relieve the tension of a<br />
difficult situation or to sooth the stresses built up over<br />
the day. Increasing levels of stress that do not have an<br />
effective relief outlet is a recipe for future trouble.<br />
Patients of colitis have a major bowel weakness and stress<br />
just loves such a scenario to exploit if afforded the<br />
chance.</p>
<p>It is normally the obvious actions such as the taking of<br />
medication that is used to try and control colitis symptoms.<br />
They, of course, have their place and are effective but other<br />
means to try and control or reduce the chances of symptoms<br />
happening in the first place should always be tried. Methods<br />
to try and reduce the levels of stress are often easy to<br />
implement and can have a lasting effect on overall health,<br />
not just to defend the sufferer against the challenge that<br />
colitis brings.</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t miss out as the author has the exact knowledge you want<br />
for living with colitis. It&#8217;s your chance to uncover the real<br />
experiences that only a survivor can offer. It&#8217;s your<br />
opportunity to find the practical colitis answers to manage<br />
your daily colitis symptoms better, to ease the pain and<br />
anxieties. Why miss out on the real life knowledge that your<br />
doctor most likely can&#8217;t provide you with?<br />
<a href="http://www.thecolitisexperience.com">http://www.thecolitisexperience.com</a></p>
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		<title>Male Depression &#8211; Important Facts You Need to Know About Male Depression!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Male depression is sometimes thought to occur in your 40&#8242;s or 50&#8242;s however,that is not necessarily the case. It can occur at any time in your life, brought on by such things as a sense of the meaninglessness of life, working in a job that you dislike or even a relationship breakdown. The thing to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Male depression is sometimes thought to occur in your 40&#8242;s or<br />
50&#8242;s however,that is not necessarily the case. It can occur<br />
at any time in your life, brought on by such things as a<br />
sense of the meaninglessness of life, working in a job that<br />
you dislike or even a relationship breakdown.</p>
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<p>The thing to know is that this is nothing to be ashamed of<br />
and that you are not alone in going through this experience.<br />
Are you aware that Winston Churchill suffered depression<br />
throughout his life, as have many men in the public eye over<br />
the years?</p>
<p>Chronic stress is what leads to male depression with the<br />
warning signs being anger, frustration and aggression.<br />
Recognising and acting on these early warning signs means<br />
you can prevent this situation.</p>
<p>The problem is that most men do not heed these early warning<br />
signs,choosing to either dismiss or ignore them in the hope<br />
that they will vanish on their own. But, this is rarely the<br />
case.</p>
<p>What happens if you choose to take no action to resolve the<br />
chronic stress? According to Dr Nick Allen, a professor of<br />
Psychiatry at the University of Melbourne and the Orygen<br />
Youth Health Research Centre, the hormone cortisol is<br />
released into your body and parts of your brain are<br />
sensitive to high levels of this hormone and are actually<br />
changed if these levels remain high for too long.</p>
<p>In fact, chronic elevation of these levels of cortisol can<br />
lead to male depression by actually interfering with the<br />
storage of serotonin, a vital hormone that contributes to<br />
your feeling of well-being, helping to lift your mood.</p>
<p>According to some authorities, you are more likely to fall<br />
victim to depression if you have a family history of<br />
anxiety, depression or substance-abuse problems. If it runs<br />
in your family and you suffer a relationship breakdown in<br />
your early twenties then that is the time to pay attention.</p>
<p>However, as males tend to avoid or ignore their feelings, it<br />
is more likely that you will drown them in alcohol or turn to<br />
drugs as a distraction which can have devastating effects on<br />
your long term health.</p>
<p>You may deal with chronic stress by overworking, gambling,<br />
being promiscuous or taking risks such as driving under the<br />
influence of alcohol and drugs because these things act as a<br />
distraction and activate another hormone called dopamine,<br />
providing you with feelings of enjoyment.</p>
<p>The thing is, whilst it is natural to want to seek pleasure<br />
in life, not only are you putting yourself at risk now with<br />
all these behaviours, you are avoiding the problem that<br />
created them in the first place, leaving you open to all<br />
manner of problems later on in life.</p>
<p>What really needs to occur if you want to avoid male<br />
depression is for you to face what you are running from,<br />
find a solution so that your stress levels can decrease and<br />
help yourself become more resilient to stressful events and<br />
situations in the future.</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
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in the comfort of your own home without medication or<br />
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		<title>The Road to Stress-Free Parenting</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Hilary Clinton was the First Lady she publicly stated that to raise children properly &#8220;It takes a village.&#8221; The reaction of millions of parents was to breathe a huge sigh of relief, as if to say &#8220;Yes, I need help and thank goodness someone understands that!&#8221; There is no doubt people are thrilled to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When Hilary Clinton was the First Lady she publicly stated<br />
that to raise children properly &#8220;It takes a village.&#8221; The<br />
reaction of millions of parents was to breathe a huge sigh<br />
of relief, as if to say &#8220;Yes, I need help and thank goodness<br />
someone understands that!&#8221;</p>
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<p>There is no doubt people are thrilled to become parents and<br />
that they absolutely love their children. However, society<br />
has conditioned parents to couple that happiness with fear<br />
and anxiety, stress and worry.</p>
<p>Parents have been misled since the beginning of time into<br />
thinking parenting is the most difficult job in the world.<br />
Parents fall victim to a mindset that says they are solely<br />
responsible for this new life in every sense of the word.<br />
And if that were true, raising a child most definitely would<br />
be a daunting undertaking.</p>
<p>But thank goodness we have progressed enough to know that is<br />
not the truth. Many have come to realize that we are not 100%<br />
responsible for our children.</p>
<p>Now, I am sure that may seem ridiculous to some. The thought<br />
of a parent having an attitude that they are not responsible<br />
for their children probably sounds like the most<br />
irresponsible thing a person can believe.</p>
<p>The truth is that we have come full circle in our culture in<br />
large part due to the recent awareness that has been brought<br />
to the forefront concerning the universal law of attraction.<br />
Based on the principles of the law of attraction, parents not<br />
only have a village to look to for support and guidance, they<br />
have the whole darn Universe! And here&#8217;s the best part, all<br />
you have to do to receive the help of the Universe is to ask<br />
for it and allow it.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, this is where many parents are missing out.<br />
While millions of people are thrilled beyond measure to<br />
study the law of attraction, put the principles into action<br />
in their lives to attract and manifest things and<br />
situations, they are hesitant in accepting the fact that<br />
those same principles when applied to relationships<br />
(including those with your children) will have just as much<br />
of an impact as when you focus on achieving a better job or<br />
receiving more money.</p>
<p>I hear everyday from parents of children of all ages and the<br />
majority shares the same mindset about parenting. In fact,<br />
usually one of the first comments they make is, &#8220;Parenting<br />
is the hardest job in the world!&#8221; And so what do you think<br />
their experience as a parent is like? For them, it IS the<br />
hardest job in the world!</p>
<p>They have no problem accepting and practicing the principle<br />
that states what you think and focus on will expand and<br />
become your reality when they desire a new car or a nicer<br />
home but when it comes to raising their children they<br />
believe it is all up to them. The truth is that the law of<br />
attraction is in effect all the time in all areas of our<br />
life.</p>
<p>Changing your mindset to one that sees parenting as a<br />
blessing to be honored and shared and full of joy will bring<br />
a joyful, blessed experience. The hesitancy of many parents<br />
to let go of over-parenting their children is what gets in<br />
the way of having a positive experience.</p>
<p>It all starts with you, the parent. And it begins in your<br />
mind with your thoughts. The Universe is working for you and<br />
with you. All you need to do is allow and trust.</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>About the Author:<br />
Denny Hagel was raised with an understanding of the<br />
principles of the law of attraction long before it became a<br />
household word. She has purposefully studied and practiced<br />
these principles for over 20 years and is dedicated to<br />
helping parents empower their children with an understanding<br />
of these principles, thus providing them with the skills to<br />
create the life they were born to live.<br />
=&gt;<a href="http://www.missingsecrettoparenting.com">http://www.missingsecrettoparenting.com</a></p>
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		<title>Stress Management Program and Brain Fitness?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 15:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your stress management program is an inside job. In other words, stress is a physiology that exists inside my body. Most of us have learned to link the external world to our physiology, by blaming the outside for the inside. (For example, I will not have stress when I earn more money. That is not [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your stress management program is an inside job. In other<br />
words, stress is a physiology that exists inside my body.<br />
Most of us have learned to link the external world to our<br />
physiology, by blaming the outside for the inside.</p>
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<p>(For example, I will not have stress when I earn more money.<br />
That is not necessarily true).</p>
<p>In order to manage that physiology I am going to have to<br />
manage my inside chemistry, which is linked to my<br />
perceptions, what I think, how I breathe, my heart rate<br />
variability coherence, how I eat&#8230;any number of variables.</p>
<p>When I am advocating a stress management plan to my clients,<br />
I like to use the brain fitness model, which is based on<br />
enhancing the recently discovered capacity of the human<br />
brain to grow more neurons.</p>
<p>That capacity is called neurogenesis, and neurogenesis is<br />
hampered if not stopped by an exposure to stress hormones,<br />
according to Simon Evans,Ph.D. and Paul Burghardt,Ph.D.,<br />
authors of the excellent book Brainfit for Life. Evans and<br />
Burghardt talk in clear language about the necessary steps<br />
to enhancing neurogenesis and neuroplasticity, which is the<br />
brain&#8217;s ability to form new connections subsequent to<br />
learning new information, sometimes within minutes.</p>
<p>And Evans and Burghardt emphasize the need to review that<br />
new information so your brain solidifies the new circuits<br />
and keeps them.</p>
<p>The brain is a big user of energy, and the brain is very<br />
efficient at eliminating unnecessary circuits in order to<br />
conserve energy.</p>
<p>But back to the plan to enhance neurogenesis by following a<br />
brain fitness program.</p>
<p>The Pillars of Brain Fitness and Your Stress Management<br />
Program</p>
<p>We know by now that the reward for following a lifestyle<br />
based on attending to the four pillars of brain fitness is a<br />
bigger brain through neurogenesis, and I lean to the side of<br />
the discussion that says a bigger brain is a good thing.</p>
<p>So what are the pillars of brain fitness?</p>
<p>They are physical exercise, nutrition including lots of<br />
omega 3 fatty acid and antioxidants, good sleep, stress<br />
management (!), and novel learning experiences.</p>
<p>Physical Exercise and Your Stress Management Plan</p>
<p>Evans and Burghardt go into great detail about how physical<br />
exercise is the most important brain fitness pillar.</p>
<p>And there is good news for you if you think that you will be<br />
required to throw around heavy barbells and buy expensive gym<br />
memberships just to have new neurons. After all, how<br />
important can new brain growth be?</p>
<p>Well, actually the physical activity required for your<br />
stress management program and your brain fitness is exercise<br />
of the deep breathing kind, and if you are walking around the<br />
block, walk a little faster for a little longer to signal<br />
your brain that your are serious about the growth of new<br />
neurons.</p>
<p>Nutritional Pillar of Your Stress Management As you might<br />
expect, nutrition is very important to both your stress<br />
management program and your brain fitness. It is imperative<br />
that you quit eating processed food. No way around it, you<br />
need the phytochemicals, antioxidants, vitamins, minerals,<br />
fiber, ect. from real food, not food that is designed to<br />
outlast the effects of a nuclear war.</p>
<p>Your brain uses about 20% of the fuel you burn daily, so<br />
there are a lot of chemical reactions in your head, all of<br />
which can release free radicals, which cause the aging<br />
process.</p>
<p>Antioxidants sop up those free radicals for you, so eat a<br />
lot of fruit and vegetables to keep antioxidants available.</p>
<p>Omega 3 fatty acid is important to your stress management<br />
and brain fitness because your neurons are about 70% omega 3<br />
fatty acid and if that supply of fatty acid is not<br />
replenished, those neurons get brittle and do not<br />
effectively communicate.</p>
<p>Garbled chat between neurons is not good. The best source of<br />
omega 3 fatty acid is fish, or you can supplement.</p>
<p>Stress Reduction By Heart Rate Variability?</p>
<p>I have been a user and teacher of heart rate variability<br />
biofeedback, now called emWave, for about ten years. I love<br />
it. Regular practice has given me the ability to manage the<br />
inside of my body heart beat by heart beat when I choose to<br />
pay attention to the brain in my heart.</p>
<p>What I mean by that is there are still times when I choose<br />
to stress myself unnecessarily, and even to keep that<br />
distress when I could have the heart rate variability<br />
biofeedback eustress. Progress not perfection.</p>
<p>But I was really amazed to see the endorsement of this<br />
biofeedback tool by Alvaro Fernandez, who is the author of<br />
the SharpBrains blog which tracks all things brain fitness.</p>
<p>So if you want to explore a heart beat by heart beat stress<br />
management plan, then then by all means try out heart rate<br />
variability biofeedback.</p>
<p>What Can Possibly Be Stress Reducing About Novel Learning<br />
Experiences?</p>
<p>Novel learning experience is important for bringing those<br />
new neurons into existing circuits, where they can begin to<br />
help out building cognitive reserve, which is very important<br />
if your brain happens to be one of the Baby Boomer brains, or<br />
really important if your brain is a Senior brain.</p>
<p>Novel learning experience is usually catagorized for our<br />
brain fitness purposes as the kind of learning that happens<br />
when you learn a new language or a new instrument.</p>
<p>If you are like me, you do not have time to put into a<br />
language or instrument, so using one of the newly minted<br />
computerized brain fitness programs could be beneficial.</p>
<p>Can you imagine yourself following a stress management<br />
program based on the four pillars of brain fitness?</p>
<p>I can. I will take relaxation and a bigger brain as an<br />
worthy endgame.</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Michael S. Logan is a brain fitness expert, counselor, a<br />
student of Chi Gong, and a licensed one on one HeartMath<br />
provider. I enjoy the spiritual, the mythological, and<br />
psychological, and I am a late life father to Shane, 10, and<br />
Hannah Marie, 4, whose brains are so amazing.<br />
<a href="http://www.askmikethecounselor2.com">http://www.askmikethecounselor2.com</a></p>
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		<title>Male Depression &#8211; 7 Steps to Immunity From Male Depression!</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Male depression is often denied, not discussed and can go<br />
unrecognised by men themselves and their doctors. It is hard<br />
to accept that you are experiencing this issue if you have<br />
always thought of yourself as a strong and indomitable<br />
person,only to now discover that you are feeling completely<br />
the opposite!</p>
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<p>No matter what label we use, the fact is, as Benjamin<br />
Franklin once said&#8221;an ounce of prevention is worth a pound<br />
of cure&#8221; and the best prevention is to build resilience.<br />
Whether you are going through depression at this moment or<br />
feeling chronically stressed or anxious, here are some ways<br />
to help build physical as well as mental strength and to put<br />
you in good stead for the future.</p>
<p>1.Get married (to the right person, of course!). Research<br />
has discovered that being married reduces the risk of<br />
developing anxiety and depression. If you experience<br />
conflict or problems, as we all do, deal with them<br />
immediately rather than avoid them which will create chronic<br />
stress.</p>
<p>2. Exercise. Apparently doing aerobic exercise such as<br />
walking, cycling or using a cross-trainer for 30 minutes<br />
just 3 times a week can be just as effective in treating<br />
depression as taking antidepressants.</p>
<p>3. Watch Your Diet. Research has found that deficiency in<br />
omega 3 fatty acids can cause depression. Cooked salmon<br />
provides omega 3 which the body can absorb well. If cooked<br />
salmon is not an option try taking omega 3 oil capsules.</p>
<p>4. Change Your Mind Set. It has been found that when<br />
optimistic people face a problem, they believe it is<br />
temporary and can be solved. They also tend to place the<br />
blame outside of themselves whereas depressed people tend to<br />
blame others or themselves and view the problem as permanent.</p>
<p>So, change the way you look at things by realising there is<br />
nobody to blame but just a problem to be solved and there<br />
are always solutions available.</p>
<p>5. Strengthen Your Character. A good skill to develop is to<br />
learn how to perceive crises as opportunities to grow from<br />
and to focus on the positive meaning of situations to create<br />
positive results in life.</p>
<p>6. Foster Calm In Your Life. Learn some relaxation<br />
techniques and practice them daily even if just for 10<br />
minutes. They will help give you energy to cope with<br />
anything.</p>
<p>7. Accept Change. Though it may be hard to let go of pride<br />
and of the role you are used to playing, learning to accept<br />
that all things change and that change is can be a good<br />
thing will go a long way to helping you flow with life<br />
rather than resist it and stress yourself out.</p>
<p>Male depression can be prevented and cured if you invest in<br />
your mental and physical health now.</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Male Depression &#8211; If negative memories are keeping you stuck<br />
in anxiety and depression and you would like to change your<br />
life, can learn more here here:<br />
<a href="http://www.erasebadmemoriesnow.com">http://www.erasebadmemoriesnow.com</a></p>
<p>Sign up now for our regular Newsletter at<br />
<a href="http://WWW.CureAnxietyAndDepression.Com">http://WWW.CureAnxietyAndDepression.Com</a> &#8211; full of<br />
motivational tips and suggestions, helping you take your<br />
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